I’ve had the pregnancy question more than once over the years. I’ve suffered from adenomyosis which makes me look 6 month’s pregnant permanently. It’s an unbelievably thoughtless thing to say along with “when are you going to start a family”. I have been blessed with two boys but I can only imagine the distress it causes someone who has fertility issues.
Just write Andrea. You will discover so much more than you can imagine when writing fiction. I too devoured other authors’ writing about writing and have over the years been on a couple of creative writing courses. And gradually I began to find my own voice. The biggest hurdle for me was, and still is, being confident in what I am doing, ignoring that nagging voice that questions whether what you are writing makes sense/is any good/ is worth the effort and so on. Write for yourself. Write with no great expectations. Write because you enjoy it, it satisfies you, it challenges you, it delights you. Write because you want to. I’ve no doubt it will all work out and as with taking on anything new you may surprise yourself and wonder what you got so worked up about. I will say that for me I have been lucky enough to find myself a writing buddy - kind of by accident (it was unplanned). We chat every week at the same time, about writing and other stuff and it has been a real help. As we chat we often unexpectedly have an idea about plot for example or we solve a problem we’ve been struggling with on our own and all becomes clear as we share our dilemma. Bouncing ideas off each other and general support has been invaluable. Plus it’s just such a great feeling to see someone else working on their dreams of becoming a published author. A lengthy message from me. I shan’t apologise. It’s me being me. Let us know how the white board and post-it notes is working out x
Thank you Julie! I am ploughing on. It’s just so different to the type of writing I’m used to. But I am finding my way. And I’ve realised it is ‘my way’. Lots of copious notes, bullet points, character outlines so far. 😊
Sometimes not knowing where you are actually going is the adventure itself. Not having every plot set out and planned, discovering who you are or who the people/characters along the way, that is how stories and life unfolds. Andrea, you are such a wonderful word-smith, your novel is going to be phenomenal 💕
This really resonated with me. “Try January” feels like such a humane, forgiving way to approach a month that already asks a lot of us. The Pilates story made me wince in solidarity (we’ve all felt that collective intake of breath), and I loved how you wove humour with kindness and honesty throughout. The part about trying fiction despite the fear of being bad at it was especially inspiring — such a perfect embodiment of the very resilience you write about. Wishing you every joy with the whiteboard, the Post-its, and the unexpected detours ahead. 💛
I’ve had the pregnancy question more than once over the years. I’ve suffered from adenomyosis which makes me look 6 month’s pregnant permanently. It’s an unbelievably thoughtless thing to say along with “when are you going to start a family”. I have been blessed with two boys but I can only imagine the distress it causes someone who has fertility issues.
You should definitely write that book 📕- what if it’s fantastic!
It’s a journey and a great journey that you are on ….. enjoy the process ❤️
Thanks Claire - I hope your move to Spain is going well! x
You should definately write the noval, i for one of many would love that.. you will be great go girl your on fire!! X
Just write Andrea. You will discover so much more than you can imagine when writing fiction. I too devoured other authors’ writing about writing and have over the years been on a couple of creative writing courses. And gradually I began to find my own voice. The biggest hurdle for me was, and still is, being confident in what I am doing, ignoring that nagging voice that questions whether what you are writing makes sense/is any good/ is worth the effort and so on. Write for yourself. Write with no great expectations. Write because you enjoy it, it satisfies you, it challenges you, it delights you. Write because you want to. I’ve no doubt it will all work out and as with taking on anything new you may surprise yourself and wonder what you got so worked up about. I will say that for me I have been lucky enough to find myself a writing buddy - kind of by accident (it was unplanned). We chat every week at the same time, about writing and other stuff and it has been a real help. As we chat we often unexpectedly have an idea about plot for example or we solve a problem we’ve been struggling with on our own and all becomes clear as we share our dilemma. Bouncing ideas off each other and general support has been invaluable. Plus it’s just such a great feeling to see someone else working on their dreams of becoming a published author. A lengthy message from me. I shan’t apologise. It’s me being me. Let us know how the white board and post-it notes is working out x
Thank you Julie! I am ploughing on. It’s just so different to the type of writing I’m used to. But I am finding my way. And I’ve realised it is ‘my way’. Lots of copious notes, bullet points, character outlines so far. 😊
Love this idea of Try January, I am now thinking what can I try 🤔 also you need to try reformer Pilates, i hate all exercise but I love this 🙌🏻
Sometimes not knowing where you are actually going is the adventure itself. Not having every plot set out and planned, discovering who you are or who the people/characters along the way, that is how stories and life unfolds. Andrea, you are such a wonderful word-smith, your novel is going to be phenomenal 💕
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Go for it Andrea , could be a best seller 👍💥🍾😎
I think you'll be great !!
I can hear your voice when you write 😍
Thank you ☺️
This really resonated with me. “Try January” feels like such a humane, forgiving way to approach a month that already asks a lot of us. The Pilates story made me wince in solidarity (we’ve all felt that collective intake of breath), and I loved how you wove humour with kindness and honesty throughout. The part about trying fiction despite the fear of being bad at it was especially inspiring — such a perfect embodiment of the very resilience you write about. Wishing you every joy with the whiteboard, the Post-its, and the unexpected detours ahead. 💛
Thank you! 🥰